fulfilled destiny

~This piece is dedicated to my Sweet Sister, the Blessed Angel Goddess of LOVE’s Light, Elana Jody Waldman, my “Miss Priss”,
inspired by the BEginning of our third & final journey Curing her once and for ALL of Ovarian Cancer ~and it IS Blessedly BE.

i KNOW it can BE hard………

we have an INFINITE number of views beckoning for our attention.

Our views can range the whole spectrum from negative to positive and all that’s in between, including the infinite number of possible meanings ascribed thereto by every single BEing on this planet~ now, before or to come……
That’s a lot of possible views, Infinite in fact.

Thus…….when thinking about the future, we can CHOOSE to ponder there upon, via any one of the infinite number of perceptions/views available.

We KNOW ONLY the NOW of our experience…….

and in this NOW,
the negative is just as likely a possibility as IS the positive.

In this NOW,
the positive is just as likely a possibility as the negative.

The difference IS HOW focusing our attention upon one vs the other, affects US and our journey “to the future” ~ through our experience of life.

We never KNOW the outcome, apriori.

However ~ we DO KNOW, where we CHOOSE to focus our attention DOes AFFECT the OUTCOME.
Why not CHOOSE to affect the outcome positively BY CHOOSing to focus on the Positive Possibility?
Why not CHOOSE to BElieve the picture the Positive focus/view paints instead of the one the negative side DOes?
Why not CHOOSE to pay more attention to, visualize upon more, imagine in greater detail, and spend more of our DOing, BEing, experiencing of life within the Positive?

We tend NOT to ALLOW our SELVes to enJOY the Positive, to BE Happy, to let go of our worry, when we are faced with what many term “challenges” in our lives but which can BE seen as Opportunities. We think that we need to BE worrying about our opportunities all the time, even when we are not in a position to DO anything with respect to them, except BE.

WE DO this BEcause we are NOT feeling WORTHY and DESERVing of BEing Happy, BEcause we have a particular situation ~this “challenge”/Opportunity~ BEfore us and BEcause we are CHOOSing to see the Opportunity as a Challenge instead of CHOOSing to see the OTHER END OF THE SPECTRUM, the POSITIVE Potential Outcome of our situation, ~the ‘challenge’ as an Opportunity.

An example:

Both my mother and my sister have lived through a diagnosis of cancer. My mother, with enormous deep bows of gratitude has thankFully BEen HEALHTY for close to a decade NOW.

Instead of focusing on the challenges to be faced in curing one’s SELF of cancer, and YES, there ARE many such “Opportunities” to face, instead of getting depressed, giving up, giving in, or giving over to the disease, they CHOSE and continue to CHOOSE to make healthier choices in their lives, to LOVE SELF more and imbue SELF with Health, Happiness and LOVE.

CHOOSing to see and thus BE within this perspective, they have thus taken advantage of the opportunities presented, to heighten their standards of living healthier, fuller lifestyles, and in so DOing have positively affected ALL those around them in like kind.

When we DO, CHOOSE to see the Opportunities, the Positive, we ACT differently and thus AFFECT Positively, our situation.

simple
~the simplest things are often times the most difficult to embrace…………

Worrying about the negative potential DOes NOT assist in preventing its occurrence ~ it ACTUALLY ONLY ensures its persistence!

For example:

YOU are not happy about your money situation………you think about it soooo much, ya get YOUr self depressed, become lethargic, stop being as productive at work and lose your job altogether, as a result.

The Alternative CHOICE {amongst the infinite from which to CHOOSE} one may make, is to redirect one’s energy into ACTion instead of using it for worry. Seek out alternative sources of income, make new connections, let yOUR current connections KNOW YOU are looking, start seeing where YOU ARE prosperous in finances and in yOUR life in general. In so DOing, YOU stop “chasing yOUR tail” and start making tracks towards yOUR success.

Living Healthy

The same is TRUE of our Health…….

Those whom get sick and focus upon {whine or complain} about how horribly ill they are, are focusing on only the negative aspects of BEing ill, and thus reinforce, expand and heighten this experience of their illness, instead of CHOOSing to focus on the positive. This could manifest by interpreting BEing sick as an opportunity to cleanse what is toxic out of yOUR body and revitalize yOUR HEALTH to a homeostatic level that is even MORE Healthy than YOU were BEfore YOU BEcame ill.

Scientifically speaking, CHOOSing to think Positively when one is ill has BEen proven to provide Positive HEALing BEnefits.

It simply IS what it IS…….
again, the most simple, is seemingly, the most difficult to grasp.

Once we DO grasp this TRUTH, we are able to LET GO and SURRENDER our “need for {what is TRUEly illusory}, external control and power” over situations.

Once we DO grasp this TRUTH, we KNOW that our GREATEST ‘control and power’ rests NOT with what we CHOOSE to DO Externally, but, HOW {from what intention/thought/feeling} we CHOOSE to DO it, initially ~that which is our motivating factor, the catalyst Internally, BEfore the external ACTion ever takes place.

Our control and power ORGINATES within the CHOOSing, of our Mind’s Focus.

Once WE KNOW this, we are more apt to give our SELVes Permission to CHOOSE to focus our mind on that which is Positive in our experience, that which we WANT, and makes us HAPPY.

When we focus our attentions on that which makes us happy, we “Follow our Bliss”.

When we follow our bliss, we let go of our illusory FEARs ~ for YES, even when dealing with a potentially life threatening situation, we recognize it IS a POTENTIAL, a potential that can go ‘either way’, and we intentionally CHOOSE to focus on the Positive Way.

We are thus able to fully submerge and surrender our SELVes to SIMPLY “going with the flow”, allowing SELF to receive that which is brought forth by the Universal Energies that BE {Life~yOUR Higher Self~Soul~God~replace with which ever label YOU prefer} responding to situations as they occur through and within LOVE’s Light.

This is where it ALL BEgins……learning to CHOOSE to Focus on the Positive in any and ALL situations, BEginning by so DOing with SELF.

It ALL BEgins with YOU,
LOVing
YOU!

In Lak’ech Ala K’in
Blessedly BE

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