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Many of you have heard the old adage, “it takes WORK” to achieve success, have a healthy marriage, have a healthy body, have a healthy mind, have lasting relationships, enJOY Life.

Well, I’m here to say, hahney, that just ain’t so.

YOU may have noticed in a lot of my writings, I change words, for example, instead of saying “workshop”, I say “playshop”, instead of saying “clients”, I say, “Angel Members/Partners” and create NEW words, or as Bob Proctor would say, new “paradigms” of thinking. Commonly referred to as NLP – neural linguistic programming.
I have BEen DOing this since I was a CHILD, long BEfore I knew anything about NLP or Bob Proctor and “paradigms”.

Like most things in my life, I AM EXTREMELY BLESSED to DO much that is positively enhancing to my BEingness BEfore I AM even AWARE, let alone conscious of that which I AM DOing ☺
Has BEen like this, as I said, since I was, well, manifested physically unto this BEautiFull Earth School of ours ☺

Luckily, by intrinsic nature of MY BEingness, I AM blessed a natural propensity towards expanding my awareness and KNOWing, of WHO I AM, WHY I AM, HOW I AM, and thus BEing GIFTed the AWEsome Gift of sharing this with ALL of YOU ☺

I hear y’all sayin, “Roni {or Rhonda}, NOTHNG gets accomplished without work!! YOU are a quack, YOU’re Nuts Lady!!! YOU’re living in a bubble, floating on a cloud!”
I hear ya, and YES!! YOU are right!! I AM floating on a cloud, BUT, it’s a cloud of TRUTH that I would like to share and welcome ALL of YOU to!

The Office Micael Scott

“Work”………what does that word conjure up in YOUr BEingness? How DOes it make YOU feel, what DOes it make YOU think, and what Physical responses are occurring in YOUr body, as YOU read, see, say the word “Work”?

Take a moment – BE Aware, Pay Attention to YOU…..what’s going on as I say, “It takes WORK to achieve Success, a healthy relationship, health, family, life…..”

Is YOUr heart rate increasing?

Are YOU feeling a little angst perhaps?
Are thoughts of ALL that YOU “have to DO” swarming YOUr mind?

“WORK” – like other words in our common day language, has BEcome negatively associated and thus stimulating averse reactions through out the breadth of our BEingness.

WORK.
Who KNOWs this famous one: “Yar born, Ya go to school, Ya get a job, Ya WORK, Ya die.”

Really?
Is that WHY YOU came here?
Is that the life YOU WANT to live?
Is that what this WHOLE MIRACULOUS experience of BEingness is ALL about?
Really????????

Let us take just a moment here to remind our SELVes of just what a MIRACLE we ARE, of TruthFULLy, whom we ARE, shall we.

We ALL started out as no more than two cells – one from mom, one from dad. These two cells through miraculous design, divided into 80 TRILLION cells that created the physical manifestation that is YOU.
WOW!
We Really Are MIRACLES!!!

ALL YOU are physically is those 80 Trillion Cells.
Cells are “nothing” more than packets of energy – and lots of EMPTY SPACE.
Energy contains information – like the information contained within those first two cells that made ALL of YOU!
It is CONSCIOUSNESS – it is CREATion, it is YOU!
It is EVERYthing!

Live Your Choice

YOU ARE CREATION!!
YOU have 80 Trillion Cells within YOUr physically manifested BEingness that are ALL Infinite possibilities of CREATION.
Do YOU BElieve in God? That’s a CREATION of YOUr CHOOSing.
Do YOU BElieve in eating healthy to live long? That’s a CREATION of YOUr CHOOSing.
Do YOU BElieve YOU are smart, stupid, pretty, ugly, sexy, unattractive, successful, a failure? That’s a CREATION of YOUr CHOOSing.
That is WHO we ARE!
WOW!!!!

Okay, so NOW, that we have taken a little stroll down memory lane, ☺ let’s get back to our BIG Question of the day:
Did YOU really CHOOSE to come here, in ALL YOUr infinite possibilities of BEingness, of CREATION, to “be born, go to school, get a job, work, work, work, and die?????”
Really?
Is that what YOU really, TRUEly want for/out of YOUr life?
As a Divine BEing of Infinite possible Creation, can YOU honestly say, that, this is the LIFE of YOUr CHOOSing?

I think we ALL KNOW the answer to that one, n’est-ce-pas?

And yet, how many of us BElieve that this is simply “the way it is”?
Can I see a show of raised hands?
WOW!!!
That’s ALLmost 90% of US!

Can WE please take a moment to reflect back upon that which we TRUEly are, and send Unconditional LOVE forth unto ALL.

Ohmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE

YOU are a Divine BEingness of Infinte possible Creation.
YOU ARE CREATION!
YOU ARE CREATOR!

LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE

Ahhhhhhhh – okay Deep Breath, release the pains of this AWEsome realization and LET’s DO some HEALing!!!

As Infinite Divine Creators of our Lives, our experience upon this Earth School, our BEingness, it is through the CHOICEs we make in how we CHOOSE to Perceive, Receive and Respond to life and ALL it’s many and varied situations that we CREATE the lives we live. It is in HOW we CHOOSE to Think, Feel and ACT about and within our lives, that CREATEs the life we experience.

ANY situation can BE thought from a multitude of perspectives.
ANY situation can BE interpreted through a multitude of meanings.
ANY situation can BE responded to, through a multitude of responses.
ALL depend upon OUR CHOOSing.

Perfect example, and I can remember it like it was yesterday!
I was working as the Vice President of Communications overseeing the Marketing, Advertising, PR, Graphic Design, and Visual Display departments for a Fashion House in Montreal, when they BEgan their downsizing in preparation for selling the company outright. And I was AMAZING at my job!! Seriously, receiving praise on a DAILY basis from everyone from the President of the company to the VP’s of the various departments, straight through to the the guys and gals in shipping and distribution!
I walked into work one day and 3 hours later was called into an office and told I was BEing “let go”.
OH MY GOODness!!!
I’m a single mom, I am a self sufficient, independent single mother, and BAM, WAM, thank YA Mam, without even the slightest of warnings…..”Thank YOU for ALL that YOU have DOne, YOU’re GREAT, but……..we gotta let YOU go.”
Seriously?????

In my complete and utter shock, I packed up my office, carried out my boxes with the help of some of my LOVEly Ladies, cry’n ALL the way to my car and proceeded to drive the 30 minutes to get home.

As I came up to the red light, right BEfore my block, I leaned forward over the steering wheel, so I could look out and up at the world, the sky, to ALL the energies that BE, and asked out loud, “Okay then, what Magnificent, WonderFull Gifts have ya got in store for ME, NOW?”

That was my CHOSEn response, and when I got home, I celebrated.
I celebrated the GIFT of BEing released from a position that was drowning me in massive depressed levels of happiness, {it’s hard to BE Happy, when yar NOT BEing TRUE to SELF- even if yar DOing a GREAT job and getting paid great monies}, and I celebrated the infinite opportunities and prospects that lay in store for my embrace.

NOW, I could have just as easily CHOSEn to cry so profusely ALL the way home that I had a car accident, {I used my time driving home to “talk to ME, comfort ME, reassure ME”}.   I could have CHOSEn to feel completely victimized, lost, beaten, done in, BUT, I didn’t!!

And that CHOICE led me to make the greatest CHOICE of my life - to dedicate my SELF WHOLLY to living my life TRUE to SELF, and thus was born, “Radiate Soul Light©™”, my literary compilation, her ACTivity Guidebook Series, “Serenity Through Soul©™”, and establish our Wisdom and Wellness Community Lounge, Sanctuaire Soul’s Sanctuary, which has since branched out into varying Lotus’ INCLUDing, our Multi-Media with MIND Production Lotus, ArtWave Design, where I am able to USE my highly trained and proficient skills as a Communications Specialist for the Benefit of ALL, for Positive, uplifting, enhancing purposes….as opposed to trying to convince people that if they didn’t buy “our clothes” they just weren’t ‘all that’.

The Lipstein's

ALL this happened BEcause of a CHOSEn MIND set – a CHOSEn manner of BEing.
I CHOSE to BE TRUE to ME.
I CHOSE to honour, respect, and LOVE, ME.
I CHOSE to put MY HAPPINESS, my son, my family, my friends, my play, my fun, my enJOYment, my LIFE, BEfore anything and everything else.

I CHOSE to see the TRUTH of that old adage, that “ya gotta WORK to BE Happy” for what it TRUEly is, a programmed conditioned mind set, a paradigm way of living life, in accord to the few whom NEED US to make THEIR LIVES more comfortable, happy and free.
Well guess what HAHNEY, WE ALL DESERVE, WE are ALL WORTHY of living a life that is comfortable, happy and free! ALL of WE!

We are ALL, Each and EVERY ONE of WE, a Divine BEing of Infinite CREATION.
We are ALL, Each and EVERY ONE of WE, an Earth Angel!

Okay, so HOW????
HOW DO we CHOOSE to BE Happy, comfortable and Free?
How do we CHOOSE to live life SMOOTHLY?

“Relationships take work, money takes work, health takes work, happiness take work…..”

CHANGE YOUr Thinking!
Change YOUr Paradigm!
Change YOUr programmed conditioning, change YOUr neural-linguistic programming, change YOUr CHOICEs in how YOU perceive, receive and respond.

ANYthing YOU DO, should BE done in LOVE.
ANYthing.
ANYthing YOU DO should BE done in enJOYment, not struggle, not work, but in Happiness, Appreciation, Gratitude and LOVE.
Thomas Moore wrote an EXCELLENT BOOK, “Care of the Soul” that speaks VOLUMES to this!
From cleaning the toilets in YOUr washroom to DOing YOUr laundry, from cleaning YOUr baby’s dirty diapers to taking a family vacation to the tropics, ALL are DOne within the Mind Set, and thus the experience of YOUr CHOOSing.

Let’s look at a couple of examples, shall we.

Relationships

Relationships.
How often do ya hear “ya gotta work at it, to make it work”?
Ummmmmm, ALL the time!
Really?
I have Angel Partners going through ‘challenges’ or as I like to call them “opportunities” within their relationships, and BEing the response – able aware BEings they are, telling me, “I KNOW, I have to give the relationship more attention, it takes WORK to make it work.”
Really?
Is that what YOU were thinking when ya saw YOUr sweetie that first time, and got ALL butterflied in the tummy?
Were YOU thinking, I really want to get together with this individual and WORK!

Ya, thought NOT!

If ya gotta “work” at it, then where’s the fun? Where’s the enJOYment? Where’s the TRUTH in WHY YOU initially CHOSE to enter into that relationship in the first place????

What we term “work” in relationships, should BE the BEST, most Fun aspects of that relationship!
YOU wanna maintain the ‘spark’, the gitty butterfly feelings ya first had when YOU first got together……sit down, have a little chit chat and decide what YOU BOTH want to DO, to maintain that. This should BE a Fantabulously Fun, Creative ACTivity of LOVE and Light to experience together!
Let’s see, there’s:
date night
game night
bubble baths
double massages
meditation, yoga, exericise
reading to each other, reading individually, at the same time
family time
friends time
time for SELF
time with others individually
going for drives, walks, talking to all hours of the morning
Creating together – DOing art, music, house renovations…..
Just BEing together

and then…….DOing it ALL!
Where’s the work in that????
It’s ALL FUN!
It’s ALL enJOYment, it’s ALL the manifestation of YOUr CHOSEn Creation.

Lovers in Field

It DOes not take ‘work’ to make a relationship thrive, it takes a LOVE of SELF, Open Communication, Dedication, Respect, Honesty, Unconditional LOVE, and Commitment to enJOY one another, in every way possible, ALLways.

We CREATE our Lives, and when we enter into a committed relationship to share our daily lives with another, it is important to sit together and have a little Creative Masterminding regarding how YOU envision YOUr lives together, what YOU WANT to Create with YOUr lives together and HOW YOU’re gonna go about DOing that.
Am I saying ya gotta create a “schedule” for the rest of YOUr life?
NO!
However, have a foundation, built upon mutual desire and vision of what it means to BE Happy and in LOVE in YOUr relationship and then………..through caution to the wind and PLAY, PLAY, PLAY, PLAY!

Work Fun

Career.
Ooohhhh this is a biggie ‘ain’t’ it?
I mean DOesn’t “career” MEAN WORK?
Well…….according to the programmed conditioning of our paradigm thinking it DOes, but who said that those whom did the programming were right and more over, who gave ‘THEM’ the right to take our CHOICE, our infinite CREATing abilities away and make ALL these CHOICEs for how we are going to BE in our own lives, anyways????

Did YOU?
I didn’t think so!
Me either!!!
Whooohaaaaaaa!
How Great is this!!!!
Are ya feeling a little relief right about NOW?
A little lightening on the shoulders perhaps?
A little empowered perhaps?

YOU Are POWER!
YOU Are WORTHY!
YOU Are DESERVING!
YOU Are Infinite Creation!
YOU Are Divine Miracle!
YES, YOU, ME, WE, Each and Every ONE!!!!

Okay, okay, let’s calm down NOW, I KNOW, we can get so carried away in ALL the excitement that comes with LOVing SELF!!! Whooohaaaaaa, LOVE LOVE LOVE it!!
Remember this FEELing, Remember it ALLways!!!

Okay, focus, we’re focusing our energies NOW, just for a little while longer, on our “Careers”.

Pillow Fighting

Sooooo, how DO we get out of the old ‘paradigm’ of “Career = Work” thinking?
Well…..just like BEfore, in fact, just like we just did NOW, we REFOCUS our attentions, our “mind’s conversations”, our BEingness through the CHOICEs we make in how we think about, feel about and act upon ANYthing pertaining thereto.

Of course, the FIRST CHOICE ya wanna make is to LOVE SELF, ALLways!
In so DOing, yar gonna wanna ask YOUr SELF some SERIOUS Questions…….from a place of Unconditional, non-judgmental, embracing LOVE.
First and BIGGEST Question ya wanna ask is, “What makes me HAPPY?”
“DOing WHAT makes me the Happiest???”
There is NO right or wrong answer, ‘cuz whatever makes YOU Happy is YOUr right answer, it’s WHO YOU ARE, WHY YOU are here, upon our Earth School, or as I like to call it, our “Personal Legend”!!!

Village Kids Playing

Some people have a hard time with this question, and understandably so. With all the programmed conditioned, “paradigm” thinking embedded into our BEingness, telling US what and who we are, from day ONE, it’s kinda hard to reconnect with our TRUTH.
Here’s the GREAT thing, to reconnect with YOUr Truth, we need to ALLOW our SELVes to let go of ALL boundaries, EVERY “what if?, but!, how?, impossible!, out of reach, I just don’t have” thought has to be LET GO of and………then, then……..
WE PLAY!
Go into YOUr memory banks, and pull up EVERY Happy Moment YOU have ever had, the Happiest of the Happiest. NOW, we wanna FOCUS on a ‘career’ pathway, so…..
although some of yar happiest of happiest may have BEen let’s say, ‘making love’ – unless that’s how ya wanna make YOUr money – we gotta focus on things we enJOY DOing that are PROVIDING a service/product for the Benefit of ALL.
This could BE anything!
YOU may LOVE to draw, paint, compose, calculate/manipulate numbers, write, teach, heal, develop land, WHATEVER it is that YOU LOVE to DO, EVEN if YOU have never DOne it BEfore and ONLY IMAGINED BEing able to DO it………go ALL the way back to YOUr childhood if necessary and think about YOUr dreams, goals and aspirations for when YOU ‘grew up’.

YOUr career is what YOU LOVE to DO, that is YOUr PURPOSE for BEing.
It is YOUr unique individual expression of YOU, the GIFT that YOU came here to share and GIVE to ALL!

When YOU’re loving what YOU DO by DOing what YOU LOVE, what inspires YOU, what ‘rocks yar boat’, it is NO LONGER WORK, but PLAY!
And that’s what Life is ALL about! ☺

Now, I’m NOT saying to run out and quit yar jobs and go into debt to follow YOUr dreams, BUT! what I AM saying is to START, start to take steps towards fulfilling YOUr Personal Legend, and while YOU are so DOing, EVEN if ya aren’t LOV’n YOUr current vocation, keep in mind that this is providing YOU the means by which to achieve YOUr dreams. Shift YOUr thinking about YOUr current situation to one that is uplifting and assisting YOU in getting to where YOU want to BE!

Here’s some things to help YOU on YOUr way there:

1. Write out YOUr Personal Legend, what YOU are here to DO and get detailed with it. Why DO YOU want to DO it, what will it provide to YOU, to others, HOW will it BE of assistance to others, and what exactly is the Vision of YOU BEing the YOU, YOU came here to BE. DO NOT Limit YOUr SELF here either! Make it BIG, go over the top, Dream HUGE, see the PERFECTION of YOUr manifested Personal Legend in every way, shape and form YOU would LOVE for it BE.

2. Research: Get online, go to the library, speak to people, find out anything and everything YOU can about YOUr Personal Legend, how others of like mind have accomplished fulfilling their Personal Legend in a related field.

3. Ask for assistance - don’t get ALL ego and feel small ‘cuz ya DOn’t KNOW, it’s a GREAT position to BE in, when ya venture into territory unknown, it means there’s a plethora of opportunities awaiting YOUr embrace. Humble YOUr SELF – it’s okay NOT to KNOW – there is simply wayyyyyyyyy toooooo much information out in this world for us to KNOW everything, and NO ONE expects YOU to, so don’t expect it of YOUr SELF. BUT! KNOW, YOU CAN learn ANYthing!!!

4. Take ALL that research, information and advise and create an ACTion list of steps YOU can take to manifest YOUr Personal Legend. Get detailed here as well AND make them SMALL STEPS, BABY STEPS. YOU want attainable goals. Don’t start off with something that’s gonna deter YOU, like let’s say, “get a Million Dollars to invest in business” if ya haven’t a clue HOW to get that million dollars in the first place. In other words, action step one in realizing getting that million dollars would BE, finding and speaking to financial advisors who can give YOU options.

5. Take ALL those ACTion steps and put them into a time line - a day to day achievable time line, that YOU review and revise nightly, BEcause EVERY day YOU will BE DOing something, ANYthing, however big or small {a phone call, an email, some more research, a meeting with a friend, potential partner, mentor, writing self affirming statement}, it may BE, towards achieving YOUr Personal Legend.

6. Don’t get stuck in the ‘obstacles’ or as we say, Opportunities that come along the way, see them for what they are, Opportunities to learn and grow and embrace them for the lessons they have to assist YOU along YOUr way.

7. Stay focused, dedicated, committed to realizing YOUr Personal Legend.

8. LOVE SELF, KNOW YOU are Worth it, YOU Deserve it and keep telling YOUr SELF this, over and over and over again, EVERY DAY, ALL DAY!! Surround YOUr SELF with Positive uplifting people, information, entertainment, education, whatever YOU can get YOUr hands on. Write post it notes and stick’em around the house, YOUr office and car, create “Vision Boards” filled with pictures of ALL that speak to YOUr Vision of living YOUr Personal Legend, have daily SELF affirming “mind conversations” with YOUr SELF, meditate, exercise, LOVE SELF ☺
It took years to program YOU in accord to someone else’s vision of what and who YOU should BE, BE PATIENT with YOUr SELF.

And ABOVE ALL, CHOOSE to BE HAPPY!

Here’s to ALL of WE, Living the Life of our Dreams, CHOOSing to BE the “I” in “ME” we came here to BE ☺

Blessedly BE Sweet Earth Angels of LOVE’s Light,
Radiate Soul Light
Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein/roni

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